Ways to address a father who does not pray

10-11-2007 | IslamWeb

Question:

My father does not perform the prayers, although he fully knows the teachings of Islam. Being his daughter, I cannot find the proper way to advise him. Also, when he prays he only does this to boast before people. What is the proper way to advise him?

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Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, the Lord of the worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, is His slave and messenger.

 

We previously mentioned the ruling on a person who does not pray in Fatwa 85264, so kindly refer to it.

As for the ideal way to advise one's father, it is as follows:

1-   Dutifulness, obedience and kindness to your father will bring you closer to his heart, so that your advice will have a far-reaching effect.

2-   Choosing the right situations and incidents when he may be more responsive, such as death of a relative, an accident or the like.

3-   Seeking the help of those who are more likely to affect him, such a close friend, the Imaam of the mosque or any outspoken person who has a good approach when admonishing people.

4-   Avoiding embarrassing him, hurting his feelings or provoking him.

5-   Supplicating Allaah for him sincerely and earnestly, for Allaah The Almighty is The One to guide him.

Allaah Knows best.