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Fatwa CenterTravelling for 'umrah with ex-wife in presence of her 16-year-old son
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Assalaamu alaykum. Can I do ‘Umrah with my ex-wife and the children? I had lost my job and made the intention to do my Umrah with my family if I found a job. Unfortunately due to some unbearable circumstances, I divorced my wife; my youngest son is 10 years old, and my ex-wife does not allow me to take the kids alone and wants to come with us. My youngest son is 16 years old, and she said that my youngest son is mahram (permanently unmarriageable) to her. My question is whether I can do ‘Umrah with my ex-wife and the children? If not, then what other options do I have. May Allaah reward you. Regards, Jamal
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah and that Muhammad 
is His slave and Messenger.
It is forbidden in Islam for a woman to travel without a mahram or husband, and it is forbidden for a marriageable (non-mahram) man to be in seclusion with a woman who is not lawful for him. {C}
Ibn 'Abbas 
narrated that he heard the Prophet say, “No man should be alone with a woman unless she is accompanied by a mahram, and no woman should travel except with (accompanied by) a mahram.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
Accordingly, it is permissible for you to perform ‘Umrah with your previous wife while being accompanied by your sons who have reached puberty, and you mentioned that the youngest of them is sixteen years old. They are considered mahrams for their mother and it is permissible for her to travel with them. Their presence with the both of you is an impediment for the occurrence of forbidden seclusion.
Nevertheless, you should be fully reserved and avoid falling into prohibitions such as being alone with her, touching her, looking at her with desire, and so forth.
Allaah knows best.
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